Monday, May 25, 2009

Announcing the HMA Family Reunion


Hey loved ones! It’s time… for the

HMA Family Reunion
For all descendants (and their spouses, natch) of Howard Marshall and Ethel Rose Arnett

When: July 2-4, 2009

Where: Orem, Utah

Join us for fun, laughter, reminiscing, and bonding

Itinerary includes (but not limited to):

A.S.S. Golf Tournament (call HB and reserve your spot now)

Badminton (HB says he can whip everyone’s butts)

BBQ (HB has a new grill!)

So You Think You Can Dance A.S.S. style

Family Devotional

A.S.S. games and home movies

LDS Museum, Temple Square, SLC cemetery (our great great great grandparents are buried there) and much more

• Also, the Freedom Festival Grand Parade on the 4th, Balloon Fest, for those who would like, etc

And don’t forget:

Kiddie Blythe Days (the kiddies will get to relive growing up in Blythe, Cibola, etc. by experiencing a recreated cardboard town. ) Fun! Prizes! Come fish in the Colorado, swim in the Canal, buy Fritos from Benefields, rope a steer like Grandpa, watch Grandma teach school and help build the Blythe chapel. Oh, and shoot a few baskets at the house (girls can learn to twirl the baton☺)

Please join us for the first Annual HMA Reunion.
See ‘ya there!

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

History of James Gale (and his father Henry)


Written by Carie Mae Wilkins McGrath, from the James Gale Book

The following history was written as dictated by James Gale, to the writer, in 1919, while we were living near him in Franklin, Arizona. He would come over to visit most every morning, just after the older children would leave for school, about the time I would nurse my baby, Ernest, before his morning nap. He would sit and tell the happening's as they came to his mind. I would write, with the notepad on the arm of my chair. I am trying to use James own words and expressions as much as possible. Some very familiar, which sounds so good to me.


He started by telling that his father, Henry Gale, was born in Box, Wiltshire, England, 18 October 1818, the third child in a family of eight. When he was 16 years old he went to Australia, as many of the younger men did, in search of land holdings. The lure of the new country appealed to them, with the many possibilities there. He worked his way on a merchant ship. Later two of his brothers followed him. He never saw his parents again.
The first work he did was herding sheep. This did not give big pay but gave him a home and living while acquainting himself with the country.
Their isn't much known of his first few years there but it is known that he did farming and other work until he was owner of a grocery store. He was married April 8, 1844, to Sarah Wills.
Sarah Wills was the daughter of Martin Wills and Elizabeth McAudra. She was born Feb. 2, 1822, on a ship in the harbor of Mayo, Ireland. Though circumstances were not given, she was the fourth child in the family, having two brothers and a sister older, and others younger. Sarah and older brother Thomas and small sister Elenor left their people in Ireland in about 1842 and went to Ontario, Canada, where their friends, a Leach family, were living. They thought to go there where they could have work and the other members of the family would soon join them. But the family, before hearing from Thomas as to conditions in Canada, had an opportunity to go to Australia. After arriving there they wrote for the other children to join them. They had settled in the same place were Henry Gale lived.
During this time Thomas and Sarah Wills worked hard and obtained means enough to take them to Australia to see their folks on a visit. Thinking that to return to Canada they left their little sister, Elenor, with the Leach family, she was now about five years old. While in Australia they obtained work to get means to return to Canada, which detained them longer than they expected. During this time he became acquainted with friends, at the parties and singing-evenings. On these evenings Henry Gale first met Sarah Wills, they were married 8 April 1844. Thomas Wills married Eliza Ann Blacker about the same time. They decided then to remain in Australia and send for their sister Elenor to come to them. Because of the expense of building new homes and settling a new country, they were unable to go after her and she was too small to come to them alone. They kept in contact with her through letters and found she married at the age of 20, to James Leach.
When James Gale was six years old, in 1852, C. W. Wandell and Murdock brought the gospel of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to them. Henry and Sarah was both baptized (see Henry Gale history) and confirmed by C. W. Wandell 8 May 1852.
On Wednesday, April 7, 1853 they started for America with a small company of saints in charge of Elder Wandell. This was the first company of saints to leave Australia to come to America. They left Sydney in the ship "Envelope" with their four children; namely: Elizabeth, James, George, and Rebecca. While on the Pacific Ocean on May 12th, 1853, another son was born and named Wandell Pacific after Elder Wandell and the Ocean they were on.
(From here on the history is told in first person as James Gale gave it too me.)
When we arrived in Santa Barbara, the ship anchored for the passengers to go to the city for supplies. My father got into the boat and Matthew Walker was going down the side of the ship. The tide was low, and the ladder did not reach the water. Walker went to the lower end and was holding onto the ladder. The man in the boat said, "Hold fast until we get the boat closer to the ship." He let go all holds and went straight down into the sea. I was looking over the side of the ship. Then a man by the name of Evans threw off his coat and dived in after Walker and brought him up. Both were nearly drowned.
Nine weeks after we left Sydney, we reached America, and landed at San Pedro, California. Brother Button and others met us there with teams and wagons to take us to the Church ranch at San Bernardino. On the second day out, we camped at the Coco Mungo ranch to prepare dinner. One woman took us children out in the desert to gather wildflowers and rest us from the tedious journey. Other ladies took care of the tiny babies and cooked dinner. It was a lovely place with any brush and campers, we were in join ourselves. I told the woman I was going back to the wagon elect, and left the group. Then I saw another bunch flowers that I wanted even though I heard them start calling for dinner, I decided to get them.
The others returned to camp, but I missed the trail, and couldn't find my way back. This was the first time in my life to be alone away from the city streets. When the group returned from their flower hunt they ate their dinner, which was spread out on the ground. Everyone ate together and helped them selves. In their hurry to pack up and go on their way, they overlooked the fact that I was not with them. After everyone was ready to start and were climbing in the wagons, mother said, "Where is Jim?" They searched in all the wagons to their great dismay I was not there. They were a long distance from water and knew they must go on, but in spite of this fact, they unhooked their teams and started their search up the wash and around where they had been gathering flowers, but no trace of me could be found. They searched with lanterns and touches all night. Prayer circles were held in my behalf. The search was continued until about ten the next morning, but still they didn't find me. So, they decided I might have been eaten by wild animals or perished with fatigue. They made ready to go on their way without me, because they were unable to find any trace of me and the water supply was getting very low. Mother held back and said she wouldn't go without me. Trying to persuade her to go on, they unloaded her trunk and belongings and left her sitting on her trunk with a small baby in her arms. After going a short distance they looked back and saw her kneeling in prayer beside the trunk. They turned and went back to try to persuade her to come on and it was no use to hunt longer. She arose with faith and confidence that if they would go up the wash a short distance and search again they would find me. With an unwilling attitude, the group went again in the direction she told them and met me coming toward them. . I saw two men coming and they hollered. I was trying to get across a deep hollow. They ordered me to stand still. It was my father and another man. I must have been quite a sight, just a small boy of six, dirty, tear stained and sunburned, and with travel worn bare feet. In my hand was still the wilted bunch of flowers. They soon had me by each hand and were hurrying me to the camp. Here we all knelt in thanksgiving. I told them how I had wandered around looking for the camp until evening. I remember getting upon a large rock, eight or ten feet wide, about five feet from the ground to see if I could see the camp, but it was useless. It was about sundown. So I lay down, tired and hungry, and cried myself to sleep. Next morning I awoke with the sun shining in my face got down and wandered around until I met the men. I took them back to the rock where I spent the night, and they found footprints of the men who had searched for me in the night, also of animals all around the rock. We returned to camp loaded up Mother's trunk and went on our way rejoicing.
We arrived at San Bernardino ranch about June. My father being a farmer in early life got a sickle and went to the field to cut wheat that was left in the weeds. After cutting, binding and shocking it up, he took me with him to mind the cattle away from it while he helped on the thresher. The cows came and were bellowing and playing around me. It scared me. I ran and they followed me. I ran toward the thresher. I wore dresses then, as was the custom in Australia, which made be fall down. The men, seeing the fix I was in, came with wagons and picked me up, gathered up the grain and threshed it with a two-horse treadmill. They said there was forty-four bushels.
That winter, Dec. 16, 1856, I was baptized by Elder William Matthews.
Father bought a small piece of land, three miles from the town of San Bernardino. This place was bought by the Church, presided over by Apostles Charles E. Rich and Amasa M. Lyman. Father gave his last five dollars in gold to help buy this ranch. We had to walk the three miles to Church and school. It was here that we first knew the Kartchner family.
Father bought a cow from Dan Matthews, gave $100 for her and one dollar for a rope to lead her home with. He also bought one horse, and a two-wheeled cart. He made and did all his work hauling with the mare and cart.
We lived there until the call came for the Saints to gather closer to Salt Lake City. That was in 1857. Father traded his place for four horses and a wagon, and bought two colts. They were two years old. He got an old hack and worked the two colts on it. My brother George and I drove them to Utah. We went by way of the Canyon-Bypass. My, what a time we had. All of us were green drivers and had never done any driving. The horses seemed to know our lack of horsemanship and we thought them quite "giddy" as father used to say for balky. Well, we got along by lifting on the wheels and sometimes pushing the wagon onto the horses until we got to the summit of the hill. Going down they would have to move. Many times they refused to be pushed up the hill. Then father would say, "Well, mother, we will have to unload the wagons and carry everything up the hill and pack it up on old Giney," (the name of the mare). It was dark by this time, but go we must, so we all carried things, and the old mare packed up the hill about half a mile. The horses could gallop with the empty wagon. One time we got the last load on the mare and got halfway up the hill. The mare took fright and downhill she went, scattering everything, especially Mother's dried corn and peaches out of the sack. Father chased her for five miles before he finally caught her. We gathered everything up and re-packed things, which took nearly all night. The next day we over took the campers who were ahead of us, and traveled on to Mojave. Just before reaching the Camp of the Saints, the front axle wagon broke. We had to camp sure enough. The brethren came back the next day, cut a cottonwood tree down and put it in for an axle without any irons, just a lynch pin to keep the wheels on.
We were organized with Captain Chase in charge of the company. Here we spent Christmas.
After New Years we traveled slowly with the company until we reached Las Vegas Spring Stream.
Other companies of Saints came along, among them William Moyes with his family. In a few days we traveled up the big Meadow Valley wash to Cottonwood Springs. We came to the Muddy stream or river.
The Indians gathered in the camp and begged for food. They were almost naked. The Captain called for donations of flour, cornmeal, shorts (a coarse grind of wheat) or anything that would make mush for the hungry Indians. A large iron pot was set on the fire; the water and the donations gathered up were put in to cook. Before it was done, the Indians dipped their fingers into the boiling pot and into their mouths. They crowed around the fire so that the hindmost ones could not get any and they threw up the sand over the fire, pot and all. It all made mush. The next morning an old, poor, work ox got into the mud. The Indians wanted it so the Captain gave it to them. They killed it in the mud, drank the blood and cut it in strips and ate it raw, intestines and all. We thought it was awful.
We traveled up the Virgin River, and at another cottonwood springs, this is where we first met the William Moyes family. Here we saw the first snow in our lives. We traveled on over the desert and passed over the ground of the Mountain Meadow Massacre and saw several graves. Next reached Cedar Creek, then to Summit Creek. Here it snowed all day--twelve to fourteen inches deep. While we traveled, I walked to lighten the load. My brother George had to ride; he had a lame foot. I began to get behind as my feet were being frozen. My team got so far ahead I could not catch up. Brother Meeks and his wife came along, picked me up, took off my shoes, and wrapped my feet in a blanket; rushed on as fast as we could and overtook Father, glad to be with them again.
We got to Parowan, and then went on North and reached Beaver, UT on the 14th of February 1858. The town of Beaver was located February 8th 1856 with Simion F. Houd as the Presiding Elder. We got two city lots. Father dug a big cellar six feet deep, put son long cotton poles across it, then put a wagon cover over them for a roof. We used one corner of the cellar for a fireplace. Mother did all her cooking on the fire. No stove.
Father and I went back to Parowan and traded the two-year-old colts and the hack for a two-year-old heifer and some wheat. We were overtaken by a snow storm. By the time we got home the snow was three feet deep, which broke in the roof of the cellar and left Mother and her six children without fireplace or stove. Father and I went to the mountains through the deep snow and got pine logs to build a house over the cellar and put on a dirt roof. But my, the logs were crooked. There was no lumber in the country. That winter William Decater Kartchner came to Beaver and located on the same block we were located on.
Our heifer brought a calf but it died. Father, thinking the cow would do better and be more gentle, skinned the calf, stuffed the hide with straw, and when he milked the cow he would bring out the stuffed calf, lean it up against the fence, drive the cow to it and sit down and milk.
We took up land in the east field, put in crops, built fences and went to the mountains twenty-five miles away to get posts. The snow was very deep, and our shoes were badly worn. The frost came so early in the fall that the wheat did not ripen for seed. We could not use risening and had to eat unleavened bread.
Between the years of 1858 and 1860, I was ordained to the Aaronic Priesthood to the office of Deacon. The ward records of Beaver were destroyed by fire so I could not get the exact date.
About the year 1860, Father bought a claim of land on North Creek, of Matthew McQuan, about three miles north of Beaver, and homesteaded land joining it. We sold our home in the city. Father got some cows and sheep and a loom; then we made most of our clothing. Father (Henry Gale) worked this land until he died, December 16th 1891. We built a house in Beaver for Mother, near her son Henry C. Gale, where she lived until her death, November 12th 1905.
Before continuing my history, I should like to say a few more things about my parents Henry & Sarah Gale. They were always faithful and true to their religious convictions as long as they lived. Going through the trials and persecutions that were given the Church in those days. He was sent to the Penitentiary for six months, and fined $300 by the enemies of the Church because he would not denounce the things (polygamy) upheld by its leaders. For his good conduct he was presented with a beautiful cane braided over with black horse hair and initials "H.G." in gold letters stamped on the head of the cane.
When St. George Temple was opened for work in 1877, my parents drove their team and wagon that distance and camped out while they did the work for their people as far as they could.
Now to continue with my own history. I was ordained a teacher and used to visit the ward once a month with my partner David Muir. When my brother George and I were not in school, which we attended in the wintertime in Beaver, we went to the mountains and hauled logs to a sawmill. With the lumber we built Mother a house. While this was our home, she cooked for the school children so they didn't have to walk so far.
I was called to fill a mission to drive four yoke of oxen across the plains to the Missouri River at Nebraska City for the poor Saints whom the Church was helping to reach Salt Lake City. Here we organized into ten companies with ten Captains, 456 teamsters, 49 mounted guards, 89 horses, 134 mules, 3042 oxen and 397 wagons, with Daniel Thompson as our Captain. President Brigham Young paid us for hauling some oats to Hams Fork mail station. That was the first money that I had ever had and my first trip away from my parents and the family. Fifty miles from Salt Lake City, in Echo Canyon, we had to stop on account of stormy weather. While there, I spent my 20th birthday on the 6th of May 1866. We were compelled to keep day and night guard because of the marauding Indians that were so bad. Our train, one of eight, each containing 50 to 80 wagons, made the trip that year. We reached Wyoming landing 8 miles north of Nebraska City, on the Missouri River on the 20th of June 1866. With seven other teams, I was sent up the river one hundred miles to cross the river at Platt's Mouth on a stream ferry. We went into Iowa returning with flour for the emigrants. It being early in July the weather was very hot. We had to travel up the Missouri River bottoms which were very slouchy and all took sick on the trip or soon after returning to the main camp. The emigrants began to arrive about the 15th of July with 82 wagons and 520 passengers. Started on our return trip July 24th, 1866.
During the first day of our journey to Salt Lake City, we traveled eight miles. My! What rejoicing from the Saints as they were going to Zion -- and on foot! All had to walk that was able. The next morning after prayers and before starting, we buried an old gentleman who had just died. We continued traveling at about 15 or 20 miles each day, but some days had to drive farther to get suitable watering places. We had to gather buffalo chips most of the time. Our road was on the old Pioneer Trail up the north side of the Platte River. We were inspected in several places by the U.S. Government officers. To prepare against Indian attacks we had to stand guard about every third day or night around the camp and the cattle. It was quite trying when our turn came to stand guard after walking all day.
We had a prosperous trip and there was not much sickness. I did get quite sick with bowel trouble but my passengers of eight women and three children took all the care of me they could. They had formed an acquaintance on shipboard and had stuck together all the way. I was relieved of my sickness by eating wild cherries that we got at Cherry Creek. Every time we camped at night the train was corralled. One half would circle to the left which formed a hollow circle. The inside of the wagon circle was used as a corral for the cattle with the wagon tongues on the outside. We all prepared the food as best we could with fires on the outside of the circle.
On crossing the Platte River which was from a mile to a mile and a half wide and quite quick-sandy, the passengers would hold hands and wade the water, which was from one to four feet deep, fifty in a line, so the stronger ones could help the weaker ones. Sometimes it was very dangerous. At Fort Laramie we saw a large lake that looked like ice, but we found it to be "saleratus" like crystals. We gathered many sacks full to take on the road to use in raising our bread. In traveling up the Sweetwater, many of our cattle got alkali and many of them died. At the Little Sandy River we saw the ashes and irons of the government wagons that were sent to Utah with provisions for the U.S. soldiers that were sent to destroy the Mormons at Goose Creek. At one place our train was stampeded just as we were all hitched up and ready to start. Two wagons were crushed in the four mile race. At Echo Canyon we saw the fortifications that were built to defend the Mormons from Johnston's army. The soldiers were held out until peace was established.
We entered Salt Lake October 5, 1866 and unloaded our passengers at the Tithing Yard. We drove out to the Church pasture but were soon asked to load the wagons with some cotton factory machinery that was to be taken to Dixie, Washington County, near St. George. I got the load and started for Beaver, and on the 21st of October my parents and the family met me at Wildcat Canyon, north of Beaver. I was soon home after making a trip of 2200 miles with three yoke of oxen and one wagon in six months and seven days.
Later in October the Indians made a raid on John D. Lee's ranch seven miles southeast of Beaver. The Indians shot Joseph Lillywhite in the collar bone. They tried to burn the house, but Mrs. Lee and the children put out the fire with milk. Joseph Lillywhite was dragged into the house and the doors and windows were barred. The Indians tried to pry the door open, but Mrs. Lee shot at them through the opening they had made. After finding that they were unable to get into the house, the Indians took the horses and the cattle that were in the corral and left. Mrs. Lee put her little boy out the window and sent him to Beaver for help. He came across the hills, a short route and reported to Captain John Hunt. He got the cavalry of Beaver Militia to go. I went with them. We found one dead Indian in a cellar. Others were tracked by their trails. We followed the trails of the horses and cattle for three days and got most of the cattle, but the Indians got off with the horses.
In 1867 my brother George and I farmed the east field that Father gave to us. In December, 1867 my Mother and I went by ox team to visit and spend Christmas with my sister Elizabeth who had married William D. Kartchner and had moved to the Muddy. We returned to Beaver on the 30th of December 1867.
On the 5th of March, 1868, I married Sarah Ann Thompson with John R. Murdock performing the ceremony. We had a grand supper at the home of her parents, William Thompson and Ann Mariah Fellows Thompson. We lived in my house in Beaver City and in November got recommends to go to the Endowment House in Salt Lake City. With one yoke of cattle we made the trip of 220 miles in eight days, and on December 8th, 1868, I was sealed to Sarah Ann Thompson Gale and Elizabeth Ann Moyes by President Daniel H. Wells. Returned to Beaver December 18th, 1868.
On May 22nd 1869, my first child, Sarah Mariah, was born in Beaver City, Utah. On the 8th of June 1870 Mary Elizabeth was born and died the 23rd of September 1870. Born and buried in Beaver. I was farming the east field during this period.
In June of 1870, I was called by Brigadier General Erastus Snow to attend a grand muster at Old Harmony in southern Utah. I was a Second Lieutenant in the Utah Militia Infantry under the command of Captain Joseph Betterson. We drilled three days and had a sham battle. Our cannons were loaded with powder and half-dry alfalfa leave. When the cavalry charged, we opened ranks and fired the cannon which made a streak of fire a quarter of a mile long.
In July I went to Milford to shear sheep and catch fish. Sarah Ann and babe went with me. December 2nd 1870, I started to Meadow Valley with ox teams. The teams belonged to Ervin Stewart and the wagon was loaded with potatoes. I hauled wood ad lumber all winter. The snow was deep in the mountains. Our cattle could not do the work for the want of feed and shoes, as the ice on the road was very bad. Some of the cattle died. I chopped and sawed logs until spring and started home the 12th of February, arriving there the 20th, after being three months away from home in the coldest of winter, in rain and snow, with very little money. I was glad to meet my family and my daughter Harriet who was born in my absence on the 25th of December, 1870.
In December 1871, I, with my brother Wandell, James Thompson, Samuel Angel, and George Damon went to Meadow Valley to haul wood to Bulionville. I cut the wood for James Thompson and did the cooking for the company. I returned home in February, 1872. My first son, James Jr. was born the 27th of February 1872 in Beaver. We went to Greenville, four miles from Beaver City, and rented a farm from James Whitaker. We raised twelve hundred bushels of potatoes. I bought a span of mules for $350 and hauled potatoes to Pioch, 200 miles away. I sold them for three and four cents per pound, which took until the spring of 1873. On January 18th, 1873 my son George Henry was born in Greenville, Utah.
In the spring of 1873, I took up a piece of land on the river two miles below Greenville and made some improvements, planted a crop of grain and put up some fence. At that time the Saints were called to enter the United Order. I gave in all my property to Bishop Easton. He told me to live on my farm and make all out of it I could. The team I had taken and put to work building on the Seviere for cattle. That left me without a team and my farm not enclosed. The range stock took the crop at night even though I herded them off in the daytime. The stock soon got it. The Bishop said that the Order would pay for the damage but that part is still to come.
As father wished all his family to join him in living in the Untitled Order as a family, I sold my improvements and moved to Father's home on North Creek three miles north of Beaver City. We got permission from the President of the Beaver Stake to do this. I went to Orderville, in Kane County, and moved my brother George and family to Father's and we all worked together for the summer. We attended the farm and my brothers George, Charles, Henry, Wandell and I went to a mining camp and hauled wood until harvest time. We saw that we did not have land enough together to farm and the place was too small to support us. The United Order was not supported by the Church sufficiently to sustain those that entered it, so the Order was discontinued. Father's family scattered.
I went to Beaver and built a log house in 1874 and in November of that year Agnes Rebecca was born on the 3rd. The following November 3rd, 1875, Martha Lilly was born.
In company with William J. Flake, Edwin Twitchell and others, I went to Potato Valley, 150 miles east of Beaver, in the spring of 1875, to search for a place to make a home. I took up some land and planted some crops, but the location was so far away over a range of high mountains that it could not be traveled in the winter. I sold my work there and started for home arriving on the 12th of May, 1876. I got home just in time to attend the funeral of my daughter Agnes Rebecca and Aunt Harriet Baker's little girl who was of the same age. They were buried in the same grave.
I contracted to shear the tithing sheep at Cove Creek Fort for Brother Christopher Layton who had charge of the Church Sheep that had been kept on the island of the Salt Lake. I hauled the first load of rock to build the Fort and worked there until it was finished about 1874. It was built by the Church to protect the settlers from the Indians. I was paid credit on labor tithing and also for my trip across the plains. Sarah Ann and children were with us while shearing the sheep. A young man called "Baby Darling" which reminded us Agnes Rebecca whom we had recently buried. We learned the song, the words of which are:
First Verse:
When our little baby darling
Crossed the river deep and wide,
Who'll be there to give her welcome
And take her on the other side?
For the way was dark and dreary
Baby was so very weak and small
Who will guard the little stranger
Who will hear her tiny call?
Chorus:
Loving arms will ever greet her
Through the heavenly pastures fair and sweet.
Never fear for baby darling
Angels will guide her little feet.

Second Verse:
When her feet had crossed the threshold
of that city without sin,
Who'll be there to give her welcome
Who'll be there to let her in?
Who will watch the little stranger
Toddling up to Heaven all alone?
Is there any love like Mother's
In that place where she has gone?
Chorus:
Angels of Celestial Glory watch her
More than with a Mother's care.
Never fear for baby darling,
Angels will guide her over there.
My daughter Martha Lilly was born November 3rd 1875. She died August 12th 1877 in Beaver. Olive Printha was born August 9th, 1876 in Beaver. Jasper was born the 3rd of November 1877 in Beaver.
After finishing the sheep-shearing job, we returned to our home in Beaver. At this time there was so much persecution against polygamy that we decided to look for a place to start a new home. William J. Flake was moving all his family and belongings to Arizona and we decided to go with him. We had our wagon box enlarged by projections on the sides and with covered bows. With all our household furniture, bedding and provisions, four children, Sarah, Harriet, Christina, George Henry, Olive Printha; Sarah Ann Gale and myself, our wagon was full to the topbows. Our wagon was drawn with one large pair of horses and we had some cows in with Brother Flake's herd. Leaving Elizabeth Ann in Beaver, we started for Arizona on November 12th, 1877. Our road was over to Panguitch, up the Sevier River, over the mountains to Long Valley and across the Buckskin Mountains.
On the east side of the mountain, going down the last hill, Clara Turley's baby died. We were ten miles from water but had to stop in order to buy the child. Some of the men went with the horses to water and brought back a two gallon keg. They were gone all night. Barney Greenwood and I went a mile south down the wash, dug a grave and buried the child before sunrise and put up a board to mark the grave. The night was so cold that the child's body had completely frozen.
We traveled on and later overtook Isaac Turley in the Buckskin Mountains. We drove on to House Rock Springs and then to a spring called Jacob's Pool. We crossed the Colorado River at John D. Lee's Ferry on a large flat boat. The cattle and horses had to swim. It was so steep climbing out of the river we had to double up with the teams to pull out. Then on to Navajo Springs, then to Bitter Springs on Christmas day, 1877. Then on down the Moancoppy Road to the Little Colorado, which was frozen over. We had to cut holes in the ice to get water; this was the coldest time I ever knew. We went on up the river to Sunset Camp where Lot Smith and his people were living the Untied Order. We spent New Year's day there in 1878, and ate around one big table. We were counseled to organize into the United Order and went up the Little Colorado twenty miles east of Sunset and five miles below St. Joseph to locate.
Setting some cottonwood logs up on their ends, we built a house, but all went to the common table to eat with about one hundred souls. The Little Colorado Branch was organized with John Kartchner as presiding Elder and James Gale as Sunday School Superintendent, January 27th, 1878. We planted Wheat and then made a ditch three miles long up to the river. We worked three months on a dam but the rocks and timbers sank in the quicksand and we did not get any water for our burning crops. The grain began to burn so we gave it up as a bad job.
We began to be bare in spots for the want of clothes but our Bishop could not arrange for any clothing, but something had to be done.
William J. Flake and I decided to leave the company and do for ourselves. We went to Silver Creek and looked for a location and met a Mr. J. Stinson in the valley that was afterward called Snowflake. We sat down to talk as his Mexican man was preparing supper. We sat there until two o'clock in the morning. By that time we had bought his entire ranch which included the whole three mile square valley. The land had not been surveyed and had been used as a cattle ranch and farm. We were to pay him eleven thousand dollars in yearly installments. Our contract included all rights to the land and water, one thresher, one reaper, one mower, one rake, five span of mules, one wagon, some plows and other small tools.
We then returned to Taylor, where we had originally located with our families and settled up with the United Order Clerk. He paid us in our cattle, teams and wagons, that had been appraised to us in joining the United Order a few months before, which ended our contract with the United Order. We got back all of our own property, but had to pay for the amount of food that we had consumed.
Brother Flake did the trading for the company and went to St Johns sixty miles up the Little Colorado to trade horses for some wheat. The wheat had been threshed by sheep and winnowed by the wind. He took it to a grist mill that was turned by burros and everything that was in the wheat, sheep pills and all, was ground into flour. It was brought to camp an made into straight graham bread; the smell when baking was not so good, but we ate it.
We loaded up our "junk" and families and started for Silver Creek and got there in three days. We used some adobe rooms that were not finished; we put mud roofs on the buildings and moved into them. I commenced to cut the barley with the reaper and ran it until some of the machinery wore out. I then cut the rest with the mower and raked it up with the hay rake. The barley was quite ripe and the storms beat it down so that the rake could not gather it up. Then Mr. Stinson told the people to gather it up with garden rakes, thresh it an sack it and he would give them 7 cents a pound for the barley. They hauled it and stacked it in separate piles; I threshed it. Mr. Stinson paid us in cash. The wages were good and we soon clothed ourselves which was a great blessing to us all.
Quite a number of people came and joined us. They came from Arkansas a year or so before. In July of 1878 Jesse Brady and wife, Alonzo McGrath and child, and Sister Jackson (Alonzo's mother), Alexander Stewart and family, the Wansley family, Web Demsy, John and William Waddle, Father Quinn and family and others.
Mark Kartchner and Alma Palmer from Taylor, Little Colorado came to look for a place to locate. They expected to buy a place up near the Indian Reservation near Fort Apache but failed to do so. They then returned to Snowflake and had a talk with W.C. Flake. He told them they could have one-third of this place at cost. They selected the east side of the valley, and went to Taylor for their families, moved up to their lands and lived the United Order with their families. They located across the creek east of Flakes camp and were building a large log house for their dining room. Then Apostle Erastus Snow came to visit them. He went to their camp as they were considered a better people because they were living the United Order. In a meeting he held with them, they asked him if he required them to live in the order. He told them that he did not and if they thought that they could do as well or better by each one living separate, just as they could serve the Lord best it was for them to decide. They then and there said, "Let us go to Flake's camp, buy city lots and live separate." Apostle Snow came over to Flake's camp. I was in charge as Brother Flake had gone to Utah for some more of his property. We went out into the place where we had laid out the town site and on to the block that was to be the public square in Brother Snow's hack. He thought a moment and said, "The name of this place would be called Snowflake, in my honor."
William J. Flake and Kartchner selected lots. The Snowflake ward was organized September 24th, 1878 with John Hunt as Bishop and James Gale as Sunday School Superintendent with Sarah Ann Gale as one of the teachers. On October 12th, 1878, my son William Taylor was born, the first white child born in Snowflake, Arizona. In 1878 W.J. Flake returned to Snowflake and brought Elizabeth Ann Gale and family with him.
In 1879 the month of June, Sarah Ann and children went to Beaver with brother Joseph Fish to visit her people, thinking to return soon, but decided to stay so she had no way to come back until I could go after her. While there James Albert was born, March 27th 1880.
In May I went to Beaver and got her and the children. I freighted from Milford, Beaver County to Leeds, southern Utah in company with Joseph Moyes until November of 1880.
I left Beaver, in company with Reuben Dotson. We were on the road going back to Snowflake, Arizona, twenty-five days. On August 5th, 1880 my son William Leroy was born in Snowflake. We resided there until February 1883, when we decided to move over the mountain into Gila Valley to Pima, Arizona.
A few days after arriving there, on April 12th 1883, Reuben Ray Gale was born. I bought a farm across the river on the Origan Canal from Reuben Fuller, consisting of about 40 acres. I farmed this land for one year and intended to take up other lands as a homestead. I was working in the water so much I took chills and fever so bad that I could not work. During this year we built a rock house of white stone that we could cut with a hatchet. It was quite soft but hardened in the weather. It stands on Main Street north towards the river. On July 1st 1883, at Pima, Joseph Oscar was born. We were quite sick with the chills and fever, nine of us down at one time. On November 14th 1884, Philo Gale was born and September 15th 1885 Charles Gale was born in Pima and only lived a few hours.
I continued to chill for nine months and in January 1885I was counseled by the President of the Church to go to Mexico as our enemies were persecuting the Church for plural marriage. I was taken from my bed, put in my wagon, given the lines and told to go. Brother Mons Larson, in his wagon was to go with me. We drove to Thatcher or north of where Thatcher is now. We were in the mesquites on an old road. I stopped my team as I was too sick to drive them. Brother Larson said, "What for you stop here? The officers will get you sure!" I said, "If they do they will take better care of me than I can myself." I unhitched the tugs, took off the bridles and tied the horses to the hind end of the wagon. I curled up in the hay and shook all night with the chills.
We traveled on in the morning and continued on to La Ascension in Old Mexico. We paid our duties on the 12th of January, 1885, and went on to Corrolitos where we met Joseph K. Rodgers, Peter H. McBride, Andrew Anderson, Jorgan Jorgenson, Lyman Wilson and John Lavine.
They had left the Gila in November 1884 and had rented lands from the Carrolitos Company. We joined them in their contract and planted crops. Brother Larson and I worked every other day, did the cooking and chilled the balance of the time.
Peter McBride and I sent to the Gila at Pima for some of our families, so Elizabeth Ann and family and Laura McBride came. They were the first Mormon women to colonize in Mexico and were allowed a free pass over the border on the 16th day of February, 1885. A few days previous, Apostle George Teasdale organized a branch of the Church at Carrolitos, with Joseph K. Rodgers as President and James Gale as the first Sunday School Superintendent in Old Mexico. Peter H. McBride was the Secretary to the Sunday School. Louisa Rodgers, Betsy Loving and their families had previously come by way of El Paso to Ojo Calienta or Hot Springs to San Jose and then by team 120 miles to Carrolitos. As we were the first Latter-day Saints located and renting land, there were many who called on us. It became the headquarters for gathering. This summer we had many visitors which took most of our crops to supply. Brother Alexander McDonald was negotiating with the officials to purchase land.
I had a pair of mares that was used most of the summer in making trips to the Rail Road to San Jose to get the Apostles and others who were on the go to keep away from persecutions. The team was over driven and neglected and got locoed and alkalied so that they were useless. I lost the use of them but did not get anything for their use. Brother Thatcher said the Church should pay me for them, but it was not reported to the Church authorities.
In the summer of 1885 my wife Sarah Ann and family came to us at Carrolitos together with others of our first company. We continued to live at Carrolitos and farmed there in 1886 and 1887.
On May 31st 1886, Walter was born to Sarah Ann Gale at Carrolitos, Mexico. Many families came to Mexico by team and went up the Casa Grande River. There was a small place bought by Brother Alexander McDonald on the Piedres River, afterwards called Colonia Juarez. The people gathered there and also at Colonia Diaz. In the summer of 1887, on April 10th, Sarah Ann's baby Walter died. As we wanted to bury him in Juarez, 35 miles away, I started with Sarah Mariah and Sister Lavine that evening. We traveled all night and went to the Mexicans of Casa Grande. I asked for a pass to go on to Juarez but the officers said they could not pass by a burial ground. I was taken from one court to another and they said that I would go to the penitentiary for 20 years for breaking the law. I was kept there until afternoon and was finally released after paying a fine of $22. We went on to Juarez, buried Walter and drove back to Carrolitos in the night. When we got home Aunt Lizzie's William LeRoy was sick with the same disease (scarletina) and died that night. The next day we took him to Colonia Juarez and buried him by Walter. I got a pass this time through the Mexican's sympathy for us.
That fall we went to Colonia Diaz where the Church bought a piece of land. A Ward was organized with William Derby Johnson as Bishop. We bought city lots and made adobes to build with. We put them in the walls while they were frozen, covered them with mud roofs, then built fires in the house to dry the walls. On the 20th of September 1887 Aunt Lizzie's son Ira Bartlett was born. We built Aunt Lizzie a house on the same lot as the other one. On the 22nd of December Carrie Mae was born in Orsen Richens house.
I was Sunday School Superintendent in Diaz during this time. In 1888 I took Joseph James' teams with mine and freighted ore from the Sabenal mines to Deming, New Mexico and loaded back with goods for the Mexican merchants in the Sierra Madre Mountains 100 miles away for ten dollars per thousand.
In 1889 we continued freighting and hauling and farming for Mr. Scoble and so in the mountains until 1890. We built a ditch to the river to bring water from the Pala Tarda Ditch to Diaz until the spring of 1891. Then we went to the Boco Granda and 15 miles further south of Las Palomas and worked on the railroad for John W. Young. We did not get our money as he skipped out of town.
It was there we knew the great Panco Villa, the great revolutionary warrior, for the first time. He was then a boy of 18 years and used to play with my boys of a night the game of spat bottom. He was quite a good boy at the time.
John Lorin was born November 4th 1880 and Milo T. was born April 10th 1891, both sons of Sarah Ann were born in Diaz. Laura, Aunt Lizzie's daughter, was born the 9th of May 1892 in Diaz.
After leaving the railroad, I took the teams of Joseph James and Erastus Beck and plowed a ditch 7 miles long that we had built to get water from the reservoir.
In January 1894, I moved Sarah Ann and family to Thatcher, Arizona and worked for President Christopher Layton. On March 24th 1894, Annie was born. She was Sarah Ann's 14th child. In 1895 Sarah Ann went to Utah to visit her father. She took Mae and Annie with her. When she returned, my mother came with them on a visit.
In July 1896, I went to the Manti Temple and was sealed to my parents July 21st. After returning from Utah in 1896, I went to Franklin, Arizona, an worked on the Moddle Canal. In November of that year, I moved Sarah Ann and her family to Franklin and continued to work on the ditch. In 1897 the water crossed the railroad wash. A branch of the Church was organized that year with Samuel Echols as President and Jams Gale as Sunday School Superintendent. On April 1st 1897, I went to Diaz, Mexico to move Aunt Lizzie and family and gather up the cattle. We got back o Franklin the 22nd of June 1897, and I helped George H. Gale buy a quit claim of land. George filed and patented a homestead and let Aunt Lizzie have some of he land. I took up land as a homestead and built a board house on it. This was Sarah Ann's home.
(This history now takes the form as transcribed by Laura Gale Moyers from the words of James Gale.)
I was set apart as Superintendent of the Franklin Ward Sunday School February 3rd 1898 by Apostle John Henry Smith and was also set apart as Ward Clerk on the same date by Apostle John W. Taylor. I served nineteen years as the Sunday School Superintendent of the Franklin Ward.
We built the first lumber house on the Franklin flat near the Israel Elledge place. I homesteaded for Sarah Ann in 1897. We carried George, who was sick with rheumatism from the Elledge house to our new house on his birthday, January 18, 1897. That year we planted twenty-five acres of corn and planned to water it from the Moddle Canal. I stood over the headgate all day long on my birthday, May 6th, waiting for the water that did not come. We mailed to make any crop from that planting. We suffered many failures of crops due to shortage of water and cinch bugs that ate up the grain. We labored along as best we could, building up the Ward. Elizabeth Ann Gale was set apart as Relief Society President February 3rd 1898. That same day, Sarah Ann Gale was set apart as President of the YLMIA. George Marlin, son of George and Elsie Gale, was the first baby born in Franklin, July 26th 1897. About this time Sarah Ann's health failed due to kidney and stomach trouble.
In the year 1912, Sarah Ann, Elizabeth Ann an I were recommended by Stake President Andrew Kimball to go to the house of the Lord in Salt Lake City and receive our second anointing, June 11th, 1912, by Anthony H. Lund. From here we separated, Elizabeth Ann going to Beaver, our old home, and Sarah Ann and I going to Idaho and Oregon to visit our daughter Mae Wilkins and family and my brother Joseph Gale and family. From there we went to Beaver, Utah, to visit our relatives, returning to Franklin early in August
Sarah Ann's health grew worse. Thinking to help her, we went to Showlow, Arizona, to visit her son, George, and his family April 25th, 1914. For a time she seemed to improve, but owing to the dreadful disease, diabetes, it was necessary to amputate her right leg just above the knee, on June 12th. She survived the operation, but due to lack of vitality and strength, her death occurred at 7:20 a.m. June 16th, 1914, at the home of my sister, Elizabeth Kartchner, at Snowflake, Arizona, an was buried in the Kartchner plot in the Snowflake cemetery. Annie and I then returned, by way of Thatcher, Arizona, and called at Sadie's home. Annie being the baby and only child not yet married, went to live with her sister Mae Wilkins, who had returned from Idaho to live in Franklin. We all gathered at dear Sarah Ann's home to divide her property and keepsakes among her children, according to her will. It surely was a sad time for us all.
On my birthday, May 6th 1915, we met in Franklin as a family reunion and decided to meet on that day each year and form a family organization. On May 6th 1917 we met and organized according to the Church rule with the following persons as officers: James Gale Jr. as president, William Taylor Gale, vice president; Jasper Gale, second vice-president; Milo T. Gale, secretary. The by-laws are: a fee of 25 cents for entrance and 25 cents annual fee will be paid. Also a temple and genealogical committee was chosen with Mae Wilkins as chairman; George H. Gale, secretary; John L. Gale, treasurer. All money to be used in doing genealogical work.
We have continued to meet each year on May 6th, according to appointment, and given in reports of record and temple work. At this date, May 7th 1927, we have finished the annual gathering and the day had been spent in exchanging and copying family records at the home of Elizabeth Ann Gale.
Prescott, Arizona
October 26, 1932
This book was sent to me (Mae) by my sister, Sadie, as Father had given her the book. After his death she wanted me to put in the finishing chapter of lines, as best I could, what our dear Father had so many years ago had me start for him. In 1921 he came to my house very often to get my help in fixing up his records and talked about someone writing a family history. His eyesight was poor and he didn't know how to go about it. After much talk and thinking, he started to tell me the happenings of his life while I wrote on scratch paper as he dictated. Later he got a book and head me transfer it in ink. He helped to fill in things that were left out in the first writing. This was just intended as a start, but it is all we have now. I copied all the pages from the first to the part where he moved Aunt Lizzie to Franklin. I do not know who put in the others, but they are good an I wish they had kept on and finished it.
Now, after the passing of our dear loved ones, I have been asked to finish, what seems to me, so sacred. It is no small talk and one I feel unable to do justice to. How I will miss his kink voice dictating what to put next. I feel so sad now because of our dear brother George's illness, which has been serious since last January. He is at this time so weak and bad, bloated up so often, caused by his heart, and has to be tapped to give him relief. Each time he gets weaker. He feels he cannot stand many more times of tapping and he may pass away at any hour.
But to continue with our dear Father's life. I have a minute or part of an outline of the last reunion he was with us, held May 6th, 1928. I will copy:
Called to order at 10:30 a.m.
Singing No. 18, "What was Witnessed in the Heavens"
Singing No. 41, "Oh, How Lovely Was the Morning"
Report on Temple work by George Gale
64 baptized
67 endowments
19 families sealed
87 names in Temple yet ready to do
Remarks by father on Temple work
That is all that is given of the day's program except an account of the members in the family at that time. Father has 24 children in all, 15 still living and 105 grandchildren.
As near as I can make out from the writing I have of Father's talk given that day, as follows:
"It seems like I've got the worst part of it. I'm kind of lost for something to say. Oh, don't say why? I've lived a good long while in the Church and lived the principles of the Gospel. I thought today I'd get out of it. I find the older I get the more I find to do. When I find out what has been in the Gale family -- it's the only family in America that have taken up the Gale family line. I've undertaken to do genealogy work, but that part of it is just started. We haven't really understood our duty. We are all green at the business of genealogical records. There is something promised the generations of the earth -- it is now and we ought to appreciate it. We don't know what genealogy work is. It is in the brain of every member. We've got genealogy work to think about. Genealogy is in the mind of every individual.
Family records are what we make genealogy from, and it comes to us through the power and influence of the Holy Spirit of God. This is what constitutes genealogy work. Therefore, I'm not posted, only we've organized ourselves as a family to do research work and make a record of what we have done and have it recorded in their name.
I am glad you came out today, so I can see what I can see of you. I'm in a bad shape. My hearing is bad and I have a bad cough. My eyesight is bad. I'm not well. I welcome all of you to help make the celebration. Go on and visit as Saints and friends and people. Conduct the program as best you can. As an Elder in Israel I ask God's blessings on every one of you, Amen."
Father's health had been failing for some time and he was quite sick in January, but got a little better and was able to be with us that day on his birthday. It was the last one he was with us. Soon after he got so he was not able to be up much. While he was so bad, George got Aunt Lizzie Kartchner and Aunt Rebecca Thompson, Father's sisters who were working at the Mesa Temple, and brought them to see Father. He had not seen Aunt Becca for sixteen years. He was glad to see or have them visit him. All the family who could went to see him.
He was under Doctor Neighbors and DeMoss for about one year. He passed away December 12th 1928, at 6 a.m. Aunt Lizzie and brother Will were with him.
All the family who could came to see him laid to rest in a beautiful casket and vault selected by sister Sadie in Thatcher. Martin Mortensen, her husband, helped to bring them up on a truck. He was buried December 14th in the Franklin Cemetery. He had the best that the times and means could do for him.
Aunt Lizzie's Gales health failed and on February 20th 1930 she passed away at the home of her daughter, Laura Gale Moyers.
I think as a family we should say:
We know just beyond times little space
They found with Christ a resting place.
They have gone to fairer mansions
To prepare a welcome there,
When our mission here is ended,
When we leave this world of care.
Though they walk with us no more,
We must go on just as before,
''Tis meant it should be so.
Let each his house in order set,
That he may live without regret
Whenever called to go.



Sarah Ann Thompson Gale
The following is a short sketch on the life of Sarah Ann Thompson Gale as written by her daughter Mae.
Mother's Church work was mostly with the Primary, Sunday School and Mutual Improvement. She served as president, teacher, singing director, and various positions in the Relief Society, and was loved an respected by all who knew her. She was called so often to go where there was sickness among the children and confinement cases. Not having doctors, they felt that they should go and do what they could to relieve misery and pain and offer comfort to those in distress. She loved her children and they all loved her. We were always welcome at her home. Regardless of the number she could make room at the table and extra beds to take care of them. Our evenings at home were spent in such a happy way. Father played the violin, Mother taught us to sing together, an Mae played the little organ for Church and dances. We played games and had the neighbors young folks there often. She would make molasses candy and popcorn balls. Father always grew the cane and made the molasses and grew the popcorn.
Mother often grieved because she was so far away from her parents and families. We did not have grandparents, uncles, aunts and cousins near so our only relatives were Aunt Lizzie's and Mother's children. Although we were poor so far as money, nice clothes and large homes, we were happy and thankful for the many blessings we did have.
Our parents taught us the Gospel and how to live it by their own lives and were always leaders in Ward and Church activities.
Mother's passing was on the 16th of June 1914 in Snowflake, Arizona. Father called us together the next year on his birthday, 6th May 1915. As a family he wanted us to meet every year on that date and renew our love and friendship. Later, he organized us into a Gale Family Organization. He wanted us to keep in mind one purpose: to combine our efforts to do research and compile records for temple work.
We were wonderfully blessed as a family to have parents who always took an interest in our social life. Father played the violin for dances and parties. They bought a small organ, which we put in the wagon for Church gatherings, and for dances for miles around us. I pedaled and played six and eight hours at night for dances, and was paid one dollar cash. Father was given from three to five dollars, but what we made helped so much when the flour can was all but empty.


Comments by Gary L. Foster, Great Grandson of James Gale:
Today, February 16, 1998 the Gale family has grown tremendously in size and blessings. Over 5,000 living descendents share the heritage of birth through the loins of James Gale. Yes, he was an early pioneer in southern Utah and Arizona and Old Mexico. He worked hard. He took time out to play and most of all he loved all of his 24 children. He enjoyed the companionship of his two wives and endured the challenges of trying to provide for both of their families. His life and theirs was not easy and nearly impossible. They survived the persecutions of their government and moved their families out of harms way. They loved each other and lived for each other. When the time came they could move back into the United States they settled in Franklin, Arizona. They were always loyal to their citizenship and obeyed its laws. Their many moves caused them to not have wealth or accumulate lands. Their greatest gift to their posterity was that they lived their testimonies of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Many thousands of converts all over the world have joined the Church because of the missionaries this family has sent. Temple marriages and faithful Church service continue to bless their descendents generations later. Leaders in all aspects of business, Church and political life have come through this family. Let us remember to seek out all of our ancestral dead and unite them as an Eternal Family.

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Family Birthdays


Jan
1 Colby Shepherd (married to Wendy)
2 Jaxson Shepherd (son of Stacey and Danny)
7th Joseph (son of Dana and Ryan)
10th Macy Tigner (daughter of Heidi and Fletcher)
14th Cy (son of Heidi)
14th Aiden Arnett (son of Anthony and Sarah)
17th Josie Tigner (daughter of Heidi and Fletcher)
20th Lindsay Anne Arnett
26th Ty Murphy (son of Channy and Lee)
27th Sydnee Nicole Arnett
27th Alexis Joelle Arnett
28th Heidi Rose


Feb
10th Larry Dee
27th Cameron Dee

March
1st Casey
4th Dakota (daughter of Heidi)
7th Penelope (daughter of Lacy and Dave)
8th Cate JaNae (daughter of Mackenzie and Brig)
12th Quinn Delhoyo (married to Devry)
17th Tana Lamb (daughter of Chea and Wayne)
20th Asher (son of Devry and Quinn)
22nd Lucy Marie (daughter of Lacy and Dave)
24th Blue Shepherd (son of Wendy and Colby)
28th Boggs

April
3rd Jackson Arnett (son of AJ and Brittney)
4/18 Fletcher Tigner (married to Heidi)

May
4th Wendy May
7th Chandell
9th Penee
13th Devry
16th Grandma Ethel

June
2nd Paige (daughter of Channy and Lee)
2nd Trey (son of Channy and Lee)
4th Kody (married to Meghan)
4th Meghan
8th Grandpa Howard
15th Dave Mayberry (married to Lacy)
16th Kathleen
22nd Beau (son of Wendy and Colby)
30th Chad Jeffrey

July
1st Taryn (daughter of Chea and Wayne)
7th Merrick (son of Danny and Frances)
7th Canyon Rose (daughter of Miley)
8th Ryan Brijs (married to Dana)
10th Jacki Lynn
22nd HB
30th Brittney (married to AJ)
30th Sara (married to Anthony)
31st Dana
31st Candy


August
7th Cathy
14th Lee Murphy (married to Channy)
18th Anthony
20th AJ

September
1st Austin Brent
2nd Brig Arnold (married to Mackenzie)
2nd Avery (daughter of AJ and Brittney)
6th Frances (married to Danny)
6th Pierce
8th Chea
8th Jantzen
15th Cliff
26th Mallory

October
4th Miley Rose
6th Lance
11th Stacey
17th Sadie Rose (daughter of Dana and Ryan)
22nd Mackenzie
29th Danny Shepherd (married to Stacey)

November
3rd Jancy (daughter Chea and Wayne)
13th Danny
15th Jeff

December
9th Reed (son of Wendy and Colby
11th Shani (daughter of Channy and Lee Murphy)
18th Pam
20th Lacy
21st Jessica Lamb (daughter of Chea and Wayne)
24th Wayne Lamb (married to Chea)

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Life History: Ethel Rose Clifford Arnett


(16 May 1924 - 27 May 1989)

I, Ethel Rose Clifford Arnett, was born in the springtime of the year. I've often wondered if the Lord let us choose our season of the year to come to this planet, which was to be our home during this phase of mortal existence. I've always liked the spring season. Anyway, it was a Spring Morning about 7:00 a.m.,May 16, 1924 that I first made my appearance here on earth in a small tent by the San Pedro River in St.David, Arizona.

I was the first child of six children born to my parents Alfred and Rose Clifford. My mother gave birth tome without any kind of anesthetic as most women did in those days. Since having given birth to five children of my own under modern conditions and conveniences, hospital, doctors, anesthetics etc., this has made me more appreciative of the sacrifice and suffering of my mother. Dad said that mother had eaten that night some new honey they had just extracted, and that was what she thought was wrong with her. Of course, I being her first child, she soon learned different.

My father is Alfred Angus Clifford. He was born 5 Nov 1901 at St. David Arizona. His father was Lee Angus Clifford and his mother is Ada Ethora Christensen Clifford, who is now living it his time in the year of 1965. She is the only grandmother living at this time.

My mother is Rose Mary Busby Clifford. She was born 1 Oct 1902 at St. David, Arizona. Her father was Abraham John Busby and her mother was Clara Grove Goodman Busby.

Some of the following are memories of my mother: I remember my mother being very faithful in the church. She always attended her church duties; She was Relief Society and Primary president for many years in St. David. She was always visiting the sick and those of misfortune. I remember her taking us to Primary and Mutual; she was in all church activities.

She taught me how to pray. I was taught to always keep the Sabbath Day holy. One day I didn't feel well and I stayed home from Sunday School. I washed out a few of my clothes while the rest of the family was in Sunday School. I hung them on the clothesline and when mother came home, she really did give me the "devil" for washing on Sunday. Ever since then, I've always had a guilty feeling if I had to wash on Sunday. Mother always taught us that the Sabbath Day was a day of rest and a day to attend your church duties. This day was appointed by the Lord for worshipping him.

Mother always set an example for us to live by. She has been ill in her life and many a time I've seen the Elders administer to her and this gave her much comfort and strength.

I remember coming home from school, always hungry, knowing that mother would have something good to eat.... the wonderful smell of freshly home made bread and a new batch of beans. Mother always was a good cook. She always had a good meal for us and mealtime was always a pleasant time at home. I don't ever remember mother screaming at us (like I find myself doing, I've often wished I wouldn't do this). Mother expected us to obey her and we did. We were spanked, sometimes with a hairbrush when we needed a spanking. Just a look of disapproval from her was more effective than any spanking. It seemed to hurt worse.

Saturday was always a day to clean house and prepare for Sunday. We would press our clothes, shine our shoes and take baths in the wash tub by the kitchen stove. We were always prepared and ready for Sunday, something that we need to do more often in these days. We never had to press clothes on Sunday when I was young. These things were taken care of on Saturday the day before the Sabbath. My mother has been a source of strength and comfort to me in my life. She reminds me of a great stalwart tree. The winds, rains, lightning have prevailed upon her, but not once has she wavered! The sorrows trials and tests she has had to bear on this earth have refined her as pure gold! What a blessing and privilege to have her as my mother!

Some of the memories of my father are: When Dad was working at the Powder Plant he would get up early in the morning and go into the kitchen and cook his breakfast. Betty and I used to call, "Dad, come and get me." We loved to have him come in and gather us out of bed and carry us into the warm kitchen. Dad would always do this for us.

I don't ever remember Dad spanking me. He would shout at us to "Cut it out", but I never can recall him ever giving me a spanking. I must remember to ask him sometime if he ever did.

I think my dad could out "cuss" any ran around. Whenever he got mad he would let go of this "lingo." I think he has tapered off in his later years! Dad was raised in Nacazuri, Mexico; he learned to speak the Spanish language very well. He could always talk with the Mexicans around us, At this time I'm taking a Spanish Course with Howard, trying to learn a little of this language. I'm finding it sort of difficult Howard is much better at it than I am; he has the advantage of being able to speak it with his Mexican hired hands. He made an "A" in the last test and I only made a "B". This really got to me-much to Howard's amusement. Anyway, I'm determined I'm going to learn to speak this Spanish, at least enough to understand when it is spoken.

Dad was always good and kind to Mother. When she was ill, he would clean the house, wash the dishes, and cook for us. I especially enjoyed those Parker House Rolls he would make for our supper at night. Dad has always been good to his children, probably too good. Even to this day Dad will go into the kitchen and help out with the dishes. Not many men like him in this old world. He was especially kind to Grandma Busby in her later years when she stayed at their home. He was always patient and understanding with her. I remember Grandma Busby telling me how much she appreciated this. She told this to me when I was staying at Mother and Dads' going to Summer School.

I will never forget the day we left Clifford, our oldest son in Tucson. Cliff was going to stay with them and attend the U of A. It was the first time we had ever been separated from him. It was time to say good-bye and go back home to Blythe. I remember saying, "Dad, I don't know I can do it." We both choked up and he answered "Well, you now know how we felt when we had to say good-bye to you." It seems like these things always come back to you. We understand and love our parents more as one gets older, especially when one has to go through these things that they have had to experience.

Dad worked at the Powder Plant, an explosive plant. It was just over the hills from St. David. This was always a great worry to me. Many men were killed in explosions there. I always lived in the fear that Dad would be blown up. I remember the day we were sitting in Study hall at school when we heard the explosion, that terrible fear gripped me. I wondered who it would be this time...this time it was Dorothy Grice's Dad. We had gone to school together from first grade through high school. Dad had many close calls. His place of work caught on fire and they don't know to this day why it didn't blow. I feel his life has been spared for a reason. When Dad was about two years old, his parents moved to Nacazuri, Mexico a mining town. His dad, Lee Angus worked there in this mine. In the center of this little town is a statue in memory of a young Mexican boy. Perhaps, I would not be here today writing my life history, if it had not been for this young Mexican boy. There was a train that would run through this town everyday. This one particular day it came in loaded with explosives and dynamite. In front of the cars loaded with explosives was a car with straw in it. This straw had caught fire! Crewmen abandoned the train and left it right in the middle of this town. This young Mexican boy who was about 18 or 19 years old jumped into the engine of this train and pulled it out of town before it blew. He was killed. He gave his life to save this down and its inhabitants. My dad was standing with his mother in their yard when the train blew. A wheel from this train landed a few feet from them. We feel that Dad's life was spared for a purpose. In his patriarchal blessing, it tells him that there are thousands in the spirit world who have accepted the gospel and are waiting for their work to be done. Through dreams and visions he can accomplish this great work. We feel his life has been spared so that he and his family can accomplish this work and get it done.

Dad was always a hard worker; he was always busy. He would spend 8 to 10 hours at the Powder Plant, and then he would come home to chores and other work. He always provided well for his family. I always remember having plenty to eat, clothes to wear and a good place to live in. These things I'm grateful for and give thanks to Dad. He supported and encouraged us to live up to the Church standards and to attend our duties. So like Nephi of old, I am grateful for being born of goodly parents. This is a great blessing!

I have one sister and four brothers. My brothers are Floyd, Harvey, Clinton (Jay as they now call him) and Gary. My sister is Betty. Betty is very dear to me. She is my one and only sister. She is the most faithful and humble woman I've ever known. Whenever I hear the phrase "endure to the end" I think of Betty. She hasn't had the blessing of having a companion in the gospel in this life. She's had to raise her family in the church alone, under many obstacles with no encouragement. She's been a great inspiration and example to many. And it has made me appreciate the blessing of a temple marriage and the priesthood in my home. I've had the great comfort of knowing that the Priesthood of God was available and was used during the trials and tribulations in my home.

My four younger brothers were active in sports, playing football, basketball, baseball and just plain "ball." Even today after having families of their own, they like to take off... and "play ball!" I was about seventeen years old when Gary, the baby brother was born. Mother was sick for most of his early years so I took over. I bathed, changed and fed him. I think I worried more over him than I have over my own.

The first house I remember living in was a small two roomed one. I would get out of bed and come into the little kitchen and sit down by a little pink table by the stove that I had gotten for Christmas one year. Mother would let me eat breakfast there on this little table. There was a little pantry of some sort off to one side of this small kitchen. While we were living in this house, Betty, my sister was born. It was here that Betty fell in the pigpen with a vicious pig. Grandpa Clifford who was visiting us, happened to be close by and grabbed her out, saving her from "no telling what".

One day I was pulling Betty in a little red wagon and I jerked it throwing Betty backwards. She struck her head on the cement and it knocked her out. This time Great Grandpa Christensen was there visiting and he saved her life by pulling her tongue out and breathing into her mouth. Today we would call it mouth to mouth resuscitation. Another day Betty put a button from her shoe into her nose. Mother and Dad had to take her to Tucson to the Doctor to have it removed. Mother had saved up $12.00 to buy a new coat but she had to use the money to pay the doctor to remove this button from Betty's nose.

One afternoon Great Grandpa and Grandma Christensen came down to our house to visit with us. They came down quite often as I remember and sometimes they would eat supper with us. This day mother had made a new batch of beans. I remember seeing Grandpa Christensen sprinkle sugar over his beans. He seemed to think that this would help the "gas problem" in beans. I remember secretly trying it later, and I didn't like the taste. This just made him that much more fascinating to me. It was this same day that Betty climbed in Grandpa Christensen's Model T Ford and got her hand caught in the car door, so again they had to take her to the doctor. I think she still carries the scar to this day. Betty was always stirring my adrenaline up by her accidents.

Grandpa and Grandma Christensen's home is still very vivid in my memory. It was an adobe house sitting off from the road down in a field. It was close by the St. David Cemetery. I used to love to go to their house, because it seemed sort of "strange" and different to me. There was a fireplace with logs burning in it. I still can smell the logs burning. In the corner of this room was a big high bed with a big white ruffled bedspread around it. And all over Grandma Christensen's walls were these pictures with big oval frames. These were enlarged pictures of all her children, and relatives. At Christmas time Grandma Christensen would hang a big red paper bell from the ceiling. I never see one to this day that it doesn't bring back memories of Grandpa and Grandma Christensen.

Looking back now, I think the passing away of these grandparents was the first experience I had of a death of a close relative. I can recall the sense of loneliness, the strange feeling I felt the day Grandma Christensen died. She died one morning and then two days later Grandpa Christensen died.

Aunt Rose Campbell made quite an impression on me when I was young. She lived down the road from us toward the river in a yellow house. She was Grandpa Busby's half sister. She always had a very neat and orderly house. She was an immaculate housekeeper. Out on her back porch was sort of a wooden barrel that was filled with pickles. I still can taste those delicious pickles; I've never tasted pickles like that since. Also whenever I think of Aunt Rose Campbell, I think of sweet peas. On the east side of her house were these sweet peas, how thrilled I would be when she would pick some and give some to me to take home. The smell of sweet peas seemed to be so much more fragrant in my younger days than now. When I would go down to Aunt Rose's house I could hear her whistling before I got there. She would always whistle while she worked. Aunt Rose used to fascinate me when I was little. She was a thin woman, always busy. Several times if I was down to her home when it came suppertime, she asked me to eat with her and Uncle Will. One day she had some cold cuts for supper baloney, cheese, etc. Oh, I thought, isn't this something! It really tastes good to me. I also remember seeing Aunt Rose curl her hair with a curling iron. She would put it down inside the chimney of the coal oil lamp, when it got hot, she would take it out and roll a lock of her hair up tight. Sometimes it would be too hot and burn her hair. There was another great Aunt I remember that lived in St. David. Aunt Vil Scranton, she was sister to Grandpa Busby. She had red hair, while Aunt Rose had black hair.

I lived among many relatives, relatives on both my grandparents' side. I went to school with many of my first, second and third cousins. There were cousins all over the place.

I have been very fortunate in my life of being able to be around and have the associations of my grandparents, especially Grandpa and Grandma Busby. I was very close to them. I lived in their home and have visited in their home many, many times. While going to the U. of A., during my freshman year, I
lived with Grandpa and Grandma Busby. They lived exemplary lives and taught me many good things. Some of the earliest memories I have of Grandpa Busby are brushing his hair with a wire brush under the big cotton wood trees in the back yard of his home. I'd shoo the flies from him while he would doze or take a nap. I think all of his grand children had this "honor", I think some didn't care too much for this great "honor", but no one ever refused to do it. We never said, "We didn't want to" to Grandpa! I loved to be around Grandpa Busby. He was very firm and strict with us, yet we always knew he loved us. Whenever he said,"No" then we knew that was what he meant. When he said to do something we knew we had to do it. Many times Grandpa would take us to Whetstone Mountains with him. There we would ride the horses, watch them extract honey and just have fun. Grandma would make jerky gravy and biscuits for breakfast... I remember some of those biscuits would have a funny taste. I still don't know why. One time when we were up in the mountains, Fay and I were in the house and we decided to go outside and play, we went out the back kitchen door. Fay went outside first and I noticed she jumped over something. Then I could see it was a snake... a rattlesnake! I often wonder if we ever did get the color back in our faces. Grandpa was always killing rattlesnakes up there in the mountains.

Later on, I went up to these mountains with my grandparents and as we came around the mesquites, there was no house! It had burned down. I can still see Grandpa just walking around with a funny look on his face. When one is young things seem so big, far away, more so than they are in later years. The Whetstone Mountains seemed so far away from St. David. Going to the mountains with Grandpa was a long, long trip, a great distance!

Grandma was a little, short woman, always busy. I never saw Grandma just sitting! She was never idle. She was always cooking, crocheting rugs and doing household chores. She expected the same of those around her. If there was work to be done she expected us to help. She was a thrifty woman, her early years of hard times taught her to be careful and frugal. She would never think of giving her grandchildren a whole apple to eat. She would cut it in half and give it to you. There was to be no waste. When I was a young girl, a freshman at the University, she would cut an apple in half if I wanted some fruit. It kind of bothered me then, but now I know that this was just a habit with her.

I remember Grandma Busby would make rice pudding for me because she knew I liked her rice pudding. I loved Grandma Busby. When I stayed with them in Tucson while going to school, Grandpa would come in the evening and say, "Let's go for a ride, Ethel". I'd have to drive. Grandpa would have me drive down the Ajo Road, or down some streets I didn't even know were in Tucson. Grandma loved to go for rides! Grandpa and Grandma Busby had a great influence on my life. I mention these grandparents and others because they helped shape my life. They more or less shaped my character, my way of thinking and what I am. We are the fruits of parents, grandparents, friends and our associations whether we wish this to be or not. This I hope my children will understand early in life. I hope they will seek for only the good and righteous ones for companions and friends.

I lived 18 years in this small Mormon community called St. David in Southern Arizona. One of the earliest and most vivid memories I have of this small town is the old big green cottonwood trees whose limbs hung over the main road in this town. It was beautiful, to me anyway. Many a time I've walked from the church or the store to my home under these cottonwood trees. The earliest memory I have of this St. David store, which was owned by the Merrills, was taking an egg to the store to buy a piece of candy. Mother would give me an egg and we could buy a piece of candy for an egg. I must have been quite small because I remember reaching way up to hand the man my egg, then I received my candy. We moved from the little two-roomed house up to Grandpa Busby's old home. They had moved to Tucson where they had bought a Slaughtering House Business.

I really enjoyed this new home because of the trees. I don't know why trees were so important to me in my earlier years. On the east side of this house was an orchard Grandpa had planted. There were apricots, peach, pear, apple, plum and fig trees. I remember climbing the big apricot tree and eating all the apricots I wanted. They were big, orange and juicy. I would then climb the big fig tree and eat some. When I got through I would be itchy all over. When our stomachs were full we'd catch June bugs that were very plentiful around this fig tree. We would tie a string around their legs and hold on to the string as they would fly around and around. How we would scream and yell when they would land on our
heads.

I can still those little blue sour plums around the water tank. But they would make delicious jams and jellies. Mother would make the best jams from those figs and apricot trees. There was a big black walnut tree by this one big apricot tree. We would crack them open and have to "pick" the goodie out. Oh, the taste of a Black Walnut! I can still taste the Black Walnut homemade ice cream mother would make from these nuts. Betty and I hated to shell these Black walnuts for cakes or ice cream. There was a cement tank of water sitting by the side of the orchard just as one would go out the gate to the main road. It had moss and plants in the bottom of it. We would never swim in it because of this. I remember very vividly the bad tasting water that was here at this place. And was it ever hard, we never could get a good shampoo.

I always enjoyed the big cottonwood trees that were in the back of this home, it was always shady and cool there. There was a cement cellar, which we could climb and stand on the top. On the west side of this house was a grapevine with purple grapes. Grandpa Busby taught me how to eat them without having to spit out the seeds. Just chew around them. I've never been able to teach my children the "hang" of it. I did teach Howard, my husband how to do this. After reading this Howard said that is one thing I did manage to teach him!

I cannot forget to mention the "old outhouse" down by the barn. We never did have indoor plumbing at this house. I used to get real mad at Betty. Whenever it was dishwashing time, she'd have to go to the "outhouse" real bad! How she hated doing dishes, I started school when I was six years old. I started the first grade in St, David and graduated from the High School there. I remember being frightened most of my first year. Thelma and Fay, my first cousins went with me. Thelma was always getting into trouble and talking continuously. I was always afraid for her, she worried me sick. One day our teacher Miss Busby put some tape on her mouth and set her up in front of the class by the front door. She was up there some time when a knock was heard at the door. Miss Busby went to the door and opened it, guess who stood there? Aunt Frances, Thelmas' mother! I still can see Miss Busby reach over and jerk the tape off Thelma's mouth before Aunt Frances came into the classroom.

I went into the second grade the next year. Miss Tilton was my teacher. The only thing I remember about her was watching her doze at her desk. She had the hardest time staying awake. Since teaching the second grade myself for the past eight years, I now wonder how she managed to keep order or teach anything. These bright, alert children now days really keep the teacher "hopping". There is no sleeping today.

Aunt Luella taught the first grade the year I started the second grade. Betty was in Aunt Luella's first grade room. I have been especially fond of Aunt Luella, a sister of my mother. She has been a great help to me in my teaching career. I've always had a great desire to be like Aunt Luella. She is a very humble, sincere and quiet woman, but is intelligent, gifted and very efficient. I'm grateful for having known her. The most vivid memory I have of attending the primary grades was the unpleasant taste of cod liver oil. Some scientific discovery of that day decided that school children needed cod liver oil for rickets or something, which I'm sure some children did need, but not all of us! We got it whether we needed it or not! We would have to line up every morning, open our mouths while they shoved a big spoonful of the stuff down our mouths. Then to top it off they handed us a square piece of soft candy (which did not taste like candy) to eat. This was to take the oil taste out of our mouths. I swear I do believe that it just had more cod liver oil in it. Oh, how I hated that cod liver oil! It still makes me shudder. Then, of course, I had parents who believed very strongly that one should take castor oil in all sickness. To this day I have never given my children a dose of castor oil! Ugh.

I spent many of my very earliest days playing in the back of Uncle John's house down by the river in the sand. There was a big swing on one of the big trees by the river. We would swing way out and turn loose and drop into the warm, soft sand. What fun this was! We played and swam in this old San Pedro River many times. When it would rain hard, the San Pedro River would really have a flood in it. I can still see that dark brown, muddy water swirling with white caps as it rushed down the riverbed. It was terrifying to me when I was small. How frightened I was when Uncle John tried to swim that river when it was flooded. I remember one day floodwater running down the road in front of our house and nearly running into our house.

Some of the fondest memories are the Sunday dinners with Aunt Amy and Uncle Eskers' family. We would always have big dinners. Aunt Amy and Uncle Esker would come down from Bisbee to their farm in St. David on the weekend. Aunt Amy is another favorite aunt of mine. Looking back it seemed Aunt Amy and Mother were especially close. Growing up I have spent many a day in my aunts' homes, Aunt Margaret, Amy, and Luella. Loved to go to Bisbee and stay with them. I received a nickname from Uncle Gus while staying in his home, it was "Step and Fetch-It". An old tin garage door was shut on my foot. The Busby family has held many a get together and reunions and it was always a joy to me to be among them. These cousins, uncles, aunts have always been part of me. I can still hear Aunt Amy opening the door on Christmas morning, and I mean early, shouting "Christmas Gift!" We would race to see who could shout it first. Aunt Amy with a twinkle in her eye would always win! On Christmas Eve we would always go to the Church for a program and then Santa Claus would hand out a sack of candy and nuts with maybe an apple or orange at the bottom.

I took my first piano lesson from Aunt Lizzie Merrill, who is still living at this time. She was a sister to Grandma Busby. I also remember Aunt Lizzie's Sacrament bread. She took the bread to Sacrament Meeting for the sacrament. She would make this bread, it was homemade. This bread had a sweet taste and to this day I can still taste that Sacrament Bread. Whenever I see Jack Wright we still recall Aunt Lizzie's bread that was used for Sacrament. Why do these kind of things stay in one's mind? I remember the good times I used to have in St. David with Clara, Thelma, Fay and Betty. We spent many a happy hour together in each other's company. Our mothers would can corn together down in St. David around Labor Day. It was up to us to shuck the corn, brush the hair off, and scrape it off the cob. We would spend most of the time just giggling. We could just look at one another and start to giggle. We really enjoyed ourselves, must have driven our mothers "mad". Clara, especially, was a happy girl. One could not be around her with out having a great time. How I loved Clara. She had very few inhibitions; she was able to mix with everyone. Many a time we would go with Gerald Plumb, riding in his car or riding donkeys up and down the river and washes. Spent most of our time just laughing and giggling. Oh, the hour of youth and no cares. How quickly it does pass!

I graduated from grammar school and became a freshman in High School in the year of 1938. These were happy days. I played the violin in the High School Orchestra, sang in the Chorus, sang in trios, duets and even sang solos. I had the leading singing part in an Operetta. I loved to sing. Since that time I've sung in many Church choirs, trios, duets etc. During the last few years I've developed a hernia in the diaphragm, the muscle partition separating the stomach from the chest cavity, and it bothers me a bit and this has curtailed my singing. This I have regretted, because I would still like to do more of it. I have a great desire that one of my children would love to sing and excel in it. I wonder which one will grant me this wish. I experienced what most young girls experience in High School. I was cheerleader, participated in class plays, loved to go to dances, and had my first puppy love. How that Alfred Trejo could set my heart racing! Loved to play volleyball, tennis, and just sit under the trees on the High School grounds eating lunch. Youth is the sunshine of one's life! I think there were 12 of us that graduated in the year of 1942. Goodness, that is twenty two years ago. I graduated as Salutatorian and Barbara McRae was the Valedictorian.

I remember the day Pearl Harbor was bombed! We were down to a Stake Conference in Pomerene, Arizona. Apostle Lyman was the speaker that day. Looking back now, he must have already apostatized at that time. He spoke on love and courtship, seemed to dwell on the subject. I recall a young girl got up, apparently had to go to the rest room. He stopped speaking, and in a very arrogant manner seemed to say the very idea of disturbing him. He waited till she walked down the aisle and out the door. It was very embarrassing to every one. Every one felt ill at ease. At least I felt this. It was not a behavior one sees in a General Authority or an apostle. Shortly after, we heard the news that he had been excommunicated. Even the very elect can fall. This incident that day has stayed in my mind. After this morning session, we came out of the building, there was Bob Nelson, a cousin now passed on. He had been crippled from osteomyelitis since childhood. He had been sitting out in the car listening to the radio and heard the news that Pearl Harbor had been bombed. The news stunned us but it wasn't until the next morning at school that we fully realized we were in War. We were sitting in Study Hall and heard on the radio President Roosevelt give the statement that War was declared against Japan and also Germany. We were in War! I remember the strange feeling I had that day.

After graduating in the Spring of 1942 I went to Tucson. That summer I worked at the Telephone Company, then that Fall I registered at the University of Arizona as a freshman. I received my degree from that institution twenty years later in the year of 1963. I lived with my Grandparents Busby while
attending my freshman year at the University of Arizona. I was eighteen years old when I entered college. I stayed there a year.

It was this summer before entering the U. of A. that I first met Howard, my future husband. I didn't know it then, of course. Fay and I had gone to church in her car and afterwards attended the Fireside Chat at Frances Post's home. This was during the war years, and there were soldiers stationed every where. The LDS soldiers from Davis Monthan Base would get passes and come into church. That particular night Howard and his friend Dale Ballard came into church. Well, I met Howard that night! Since Fay had her car we took them out to the base afterwards. Howard and I made a date for the following week and we went to the "La Jolla", sort of a nightclub. We danced and talked. Then we made another date for a couple of nights later. But this time Howard didn't show up, he was to meet me at the Telephone Company where I was working about 8 p.m., after I got off work. In his place was his friend Dale Ballard. He said that Howard couldn't keep our date. He was at the train station right then being shipped out. So Dale took me to the train station and there was Howard. There were many people around the train saying goodbye to the soldiers. Howard was standing by the side of the train waiting for me and Dale. We just talked and it wasn't too long until the Officer said it was time to take off. Howard took me in his arms suddenly and kissed me for the first time! I left that train station with mixed emotions! I didn't see Howard, until two and a half years later. He was sent overseas soon after this. He and I wrote back and forth, but there was nothing in these letters that would indicate that we meant anything to one another than just being casual acquaintances.

I stayed in Tucson one year going to school, then I moved to Bisbee. Betty, Fay, Annie and I rented an apartment close to Aunt Margaret's house. We worked at Fort Huachuca, Arizona, a colored base about 40 miles from Bisbee. We commuted back and forth. There were white officers stationed at this Fort. Of course, there were soldiers all over the place, some in Douglas, also. We dated them, went to the base dances, went across the line into Naco, and danced many times at the "Gay Nineties". Also there was a returned missionary who came to Bisbee from his mission, I got carried away and decided the thing to do was to get an engagement ring. This soon passed, and we called it off. I left Fort Huachuca and came back to Tucson. My folks had then moved from St. David to Tucson, I came back and lived with them. I worked at the St. Mary Hospital in the Bookkeeping Department, with the Catholic Nuns. This experience taught me to appreciate my own religion more. The nuns were constantly trying to convert me. One nun gave me a prayer book. It was a prayer with a lot of "Hail Marys" in it. She felt this book would convert me. I was working at the Hospital when Howard returned from overseas. Howard came to Tucson as soon as he was on furlough. This time, one look at him and I knew I was going to marry him. I don't think my heart has ever quieted down since seeing him that night after two and a half years. I knew in a flash he was what I had been waiting for. We were married a week later. We were married at Grandpa Busby's home. A Barbecue reception was held immediately afterwards. The Busby family was great hands at making barbecue. Uncle Dorrity cooked it that day. It was 23 June 1945. And was it ever hot that day. Howard's brother Charles and his new bride (they were married a week before we were) came with Howard to Tucson to see us married. Then the four of us went back to Howard's home in Franklin, Arizona. I had never met his folks, so I was nervous about meeting them. We arrived at their home about nine o'clock at night. They had already gone to bed. They got up and we visited till late that night. The next morning we got up for breakfast, before sitting down to eat Howard's father called us together for morning prayer. It was then that I knew that I was home! Dad Arnett gave a marvelous prayer, thanking the Lord for the safe return of Howard and Charles from the war and for their new wives. It was truly at this time that I knew I was in a good LDS home. I learned to love Mom and Dad Arnett like my very own parents. They were very good to me. They were good, faithful Latter-day Saints. Mom Arnett took me to Relief Society with her, it was at these meetings I truly learned the Book of Mormon and gained a strong testimony of the gospel. I lived near these loved ones for about nine years of our early married life. How grateful I am for this blessing. It is a wonderful blessing to have been able to marry into such a wonderful family as I have. Again the Lord was good to me. Mom Arnett's passing was a great loss to in my life. I have been extremely happy in my married life. I am more in love with my husband now than ever. Howard and I are very happy, we don't want to be from one another for very long at a time. Howard has always been very good to me. He was kind, gentle, patient and understanding from the day that we were married. I have always had the assurance that he loved me and needed me.

We were active in the Church in Franklin, held many positions in the various organizations. Howard was put in the Bishopric in Franklin; we helped build the new chapel there in Franklin. We had many friends in this Ward. Our four sons were born while we lived there. Clifford was born in 1946, Harold in 1948, Larry in 1951, and Jeffrey in 1953. Clifford was born in Safford, Arizona. Dr. Ellsworth was the doctor in attendance. It is quite an experience to give birth to one's first child. One never ceases to wonder at the miracle of life. When he was growing up, I would comb and curl his hair, I loved to dress him and take care of him. I had more time then. When he first began to talk, I'd comb his hair and say "Pretty Boy." He soon learned to say this. Every time I'd comb his hair, he'd say, "Pretty Boy." Clifford also wanted to "play talk'' with his Dad. He loved to hear his Dad talk about the farm. Some of the farmers would come over and visit Howard. That night when Howard came in after work and lay on the floor with Cliff (because his back hurt him, he had back trouble.) Cliff would say, "Daddy, let's play talk." At first Howard didn't know what he meant, but soon he learned that Clifford just wanted him to talk to him about what he had done that day on the farm. He really enjoyed this with his Dad when he was a little follow.

Harold was born with a clubfoot. Two weeks after he was born his foot was put into a cast. He wore this cast and a brace about a year. The doctors were able to straighten his foot out. Larry was born soon after Harold, a strong healthy boy. Then the next one that came along was Jeffrey. He just turned twelve a week ago, and he has informed us he wants to be called just "Jeff" and not Jeffrey. Jeff was born in Lordsburg, New Mexico about forty miles from Duncan, Arizona. We now have four sons in our household. Jeffrey gave us a scare, he was real blue when he entered this world, the cord had wrapped around his neck, but he soon became a nice pink baby. When Jeff was about six months old we moved to Mesa, Arizona then on to Blythe, California. Jeffrey was about two and a half years old when we noticed him limping. I took him to the doctor in Blythe, and they said nothing was wrong with him. He then would he running or walking and his leg would give out from under him. Well, it didn't take us long after that to take him immediately to Dr. Dixon in Tucson, who had fixed Harold's clubfoot. He took one look at Jeff, ordered X-rays and other tests. The pictures showed deterioration in the hip socket. It was Perthes Disease. Well, Jeff went in a cast from above his waist down. He stayed in this for about a year, then went into a strap apparatus that held his leg up and used crutches. He learned to run on those crutches! He would play baseball, boy, he could scoot around those bases on his crutches. Jeff was given a blessing by Apostle Kimball. He promised him in this blessing that Jeff would go on a mission and would walk. He handed him a dollar after the blessing and told him this was the start of his mission fund. Jeff still has that original dollar. Jeff is healthy and walks normally. He has some trouble now in his ankle, but his hip socket is fine.

Candace, our little girl finally arrived to bless our home. Oh, how I had waited for her. I thoroughly enjoyed my boys, but I wanted a little girl too! She was horn in Blythe, California on one of those hot July (31st) days that can happen only in Blythe, California. She had lots of black hair, but it soon turned to blond. She is our little blonde haired girl. We've really enjoyed "Candy". I have been extremely blessed with a wonderful family. The only regret that I have is that I could have had better health. I'm sure this has been a hardship on my family. For the past nine years I have not had the best of health. During my pregnancy with Candace this ill health began. Again medical science of this day and age has helped. But the greatest source of comfort and strength comes through the Priesthood of God in the home.

It was about six months after Candace was born that I decided to finish school and get my degree. There was a Junior College in Blythe, so I enrolled. Howard approved of this desire. I finished the second year in the Palo Verde Junior College. I had completed one year in my younger days at the U of A. I then transferred back to the University of Arizona for the rest of my schooling. I attended the summer school sessions for four years and took all the extension courses from UCLA and USC that I could get. Finally in the year of 1963 I received my Bachelors Degree. I majored in Education. It was hard work, but I enjoyed every minute of it. I'm very appreciative to my family for their help and cooperation. After finishing the final year at the Jr. College here in Blythe, before receiving my degree, I received a Provisional Contract and taught the second grade in the Palo Verde School District in Blythe, California. I have taught the second grade now for eight years. I've enjoyed teaching school.

I have a great desire for every one of my children to get an education and obtain their degrees in whatever field they choose. Clifford is now in his second year of college work, and we hope the other children will soon follow. As I have mentioned my health has been poor during these past few years, but the Lord has been very good to me and has given me strength to carry on. I have a great desire to regain my full health and strength again. Through faith and prayers I know this can be done. Some of the fond memories I have here in Blythe are attending the football and basketball games that my boys have played in. They played very well. I've enjoyed the plays Harold has performed in. Harold has a gift for drama and being a Master of Ceremonies. I have been extremely proud of my boy's leadership qualities. All of them have been presidents of their high school classes, served on the Student Body and been on the honor rolls. This makes a mother proud! I enjoy going to Cibola with the family on outings. We would swim, ski, fish, and just ride on the boat. Candace and I have always been together. Wherever I go she goes. We learned to fish together. She is quite a girl! I've especially enjoyed hearing the boys play the guitar, piano, and yes even their attempts at the drums. I don't know that I quite "dig" this new beat or hair cuts, but I can tolerate it. I have seen many changes in this world, some that frightens me at times. Yet I know there will be more to come and see.

I have a testimony of this gospel. I know it is true. And I know that it is only through righteous living and being close to the Lord that we can overcome our problems, trials and tests here on this earth. These things help us to grow, to become bigger and better persons. The only true happiness we have is through living the gospel plan. We must be constant and true to our faith at all times, if not Satan's influence will creep into our lives. I pray that my children will always live righteous lives, go on missions, marry in the Temple of God, that they may have joy here on this earth and then be able to go back into our Father in Heaven's presence.

Other excerpts from Ethel's Book of Remembrance:

Nine years in the Duncan, Franklin Valley

After Howard and I were married in June 1945, we went to Salina, Kansas. We rented an apartment. Soon Howard was sent to California to be discharged from the Air Force. I traveled home on the train to Tucson, Arizona and waited for Howard. I stayed with my mother and Dad. Soon Howard was mustered out of the service and we went to Franklin, Arizona. We stayed about 6 weeks or so with Howard's folks. They lived across the Arizona, New Mexico line on a small ranch. Charles and Laurene (they had married a week before we did) lived with Mom and Dad Arnett also. Charles and Howard had been in the World War II and had no home to bring their brides to. It was here that I learned to dearly love my new in-laws. They were special people. Laurene and I became very close to one another and have remained so all these years. Charles, brother-in-law, is a super man.

Howard and I then moved into the old Adobe House next to Marvin and June's home. We attended the Franklin Ward and then we bought Mrs. Barlow's home in Duncan next to the Feed Mill. We moved to Duncan into this small house. Howard worked at the Nite & Day Garage for the Allred Brothers. Clifford was born 15 September 1946 while we lived in this house in Duncan. One morning around 10:00 a.m. I went to get into our car to go do grocery shopping. I went out to get in the car but it was gone! I assumed that Howard had taken it to work that morning. I was a little surprised
because he usually walked to the garage. I called him and asked him to bring the car to me during his lunch hour. He said, "I don't have the car!" It had been stolen during the night and neither of us had been aware it was gone. The police finally tracked it down abandoned on a street in Morenci, Arizona, a mining town about 40 miles from Duncan. It was in Duncan that I was called to serve as a counselor to Francine Francom in the MIA. I worked with the music. Sang solos, sang in a trio with Fairlene Golding, and Carol Romney. These were fun days. We then moved back to Franklin. Howard went into a farming partnership with his brothers and Dad Arnett. Charles had built a cement house for Laurene near Marvin and June's home. They soon left for BYU, so we moved in their cement house so Howard could be closer to the farmland. Harold was born while we lived in this house. He was born with a clubfoot. He was put into a cast when he was about month old, then later used braces. He was a patient and good baby in all of this procedure. How grateful I am for the medical help we received at this time. He could have been a cripple for life. My mother Rose and brothers Clinton and Gary would come from Tucson to visit us in Franklin. We went to Stake Conferences in Safford, Arizona. We'd drive to Safford often to do shopping. It was about 40 miles from Duncan Valley. Howard and I bought a deep freeze on one of these trips. We enjoyed filling it from our farm produce. Safford was a nice town. Grandpa Angus and Grandma Ada lived in Lone Star, a few miles form Safford. Grandpa Clifford died in 1947. After that Grandma Ada traveled to California and stayed some with Aunt Nettie. Uncle Roy and Aunt Hazel and their children, Alice Joy and Gordon lived in
their home and Uncle Roy farmed the land. Uncle Roy is my dad Alfred's brother. The partnership broke up and Howard bought 45 acres - the Kirby Place. We moved into the house on this farm. We remodeled it some and enjoyed this home. Larry and Jeff were born while we lived here. Larry was born in Safford, and Jeff was born in Lordsburg, New Mexico. Howard went into the Franklin Ward Bishopric under Bishop Melvin Burrell. We traveled to conference with them to Salt Lake City. I was Primary President, MIA President, Organist, and Choir director and taught many classes. We enjoyed our Church service here and learned to understand the gospel and appreciate the value of it in our lives. Fred and Marvin had moved their families to Mesa, Arizona. After nine years in the Duncan and Franklin Valley we moved to Mesa. We lived there one year and then Howard and Marvin bought some land in Cibola, Arizona on the Colorado River near Blythe, California. Howard and I moved to Blythe, California. Howard drove about 20 miles every day clearing and working this undeveloped land. Soon it became a productive farm after lots of hard work, sacrifice and sweat. I went back to school after Candace, our only daughter was born. I taught school on a provisional certificate until I received my degree form the University of Arizona in Tucson. I went to school there during the summer months. I stayed with my mother and dad in Tucson. Mother babysat Candace and the younger boys. Cliff and Harold stayed with Howard some of the time in Blythe.

Grandpa and Grandma Busby's Golden Wedding Anniversary

I sang a solo at Grandpa and Grandma Busby's Golden Wedding Anniversary. It was held at the Slaughter House Home off 12th Avenue in Tucson, Arizona. Howard and I were living in Duncan, Arizona at this time. I had just given birth to our first child, Clifford in September. He was only 5 weeks old, but they wanted me to sing so I did. Aunt Eathel accompanied me on the piano. There were lots of old friends, relatives, and many I did not know. I remember Grandpa Busby bore his testimony...there were many non-members at this celebration. But he bore it any way. He was a true missionary. When I lived with him and was working at the St Mary's hospital, I would come home and tell him how the Catholic sisters were trying to convert me. He would get out all his scriptures after supper and spread them on the table and began to preach to me. How grateful I am for his strong testimony.

Missouri Trip - 1948

After Harold was bone 22 July 1948, he had to be put in a cast for a clubfoot. When he was about six weeks old, Howard and I went to Missouri on a trip. Howard was interested in farmland in Missouri. Banks Bourgeous from Franklin, Arizona married Joyce Hughes from Springfield, Missouri. Banks wanted Howard to come and see this country. So we went. We drove to Missouri in a 1937 Chevrolet that we had bought from the Allred garage in Duncan. A new engine had been installed in it so we bought it. We left Harold, our new baby and Clifford with Mother in Tucson. Off we went. We went through Gallup, New Mexico, Texas Panhandle, Wichita, Kansas and then on to St Joseph, Missouri to see Pete and Dixie Wheeler. Pete Wheeler was an army friend of Howard's. He was in the same squadron during World War II. They were together in North Africa and Italy. We stayed with them a few days in St Joseph, and then they went with us to St Louis, Missouri to see a Cardinal baseball game. The first big league game I'd ever seen. St Louis was big and the Mississippi River was impressive. We then drove down to Springfield, Missouri and spent a few days with Banks and Joyce Bourgeous. We stayed at her folds home, the Hughes. I remember the delicious homemade ice cream (peach) that they made for us. I was anxious to get back to my baby, Harold. When we reached Enid, Oklahoma I couldn't stand it any longer. I wouldn't let Howard stop. We drove all the way from Enid to Tucson, Arizona in one day, arriving around 1:30 a.m. in the morning. I had to see Harold and Clifford. I swore I'd never leave my little ones again. I was so
homesick to see them.

Harvey and Junetta's wedding day - 21 December 1959

Harvey and Junetta were married 21 December 1959 in the Mesa Temple in Mesa, Arizona. Marvin and June Arnett are the parents of Junetta. Marvin and Howard are brothers. When Howard took me to Franklin, Arizona as a bride little did I realize that Junetta their little girl would marry my brother Harvey. She was a sweet little girl. She would come over and visit me in the old Adobe house that Howard and I lived in near Marvin and June This Adobe was our first home after we were married. June always kept her tow little girls Junetta and Ilene so neat and pretty. I remember Ilene had black, thick hair. Ilene died as a young married woman with small children. This was a great loss to the Arnett family. Marvin and June raised a fine family...Rex, Junetta, Tim, Ilene, Don, Mary Anne, Barbara and Steve. Marvin was our Bishop when we lived in Franklin Ward. The Arnett's were a close family. We had many a happy get together. Nearly every Sunday after church we'd go up to Grandpa and Grandma Arnett's for home made ice
cream. Dad Arnett and his sons were in a farming partnership. Later it dissolved. Fred and Norma moved to Mesa. Later Marvin and June moved there also. Marvin and June are special people.

Bird Watching

One day in the faculty room at Ruth Brown school, winter of 1966, Charlotte McCreary (third grade teacher) said to me, "Ethel, I want you to go with me after school out on the Lovekin Road. I want to show you something." I consented. When we were on the Lovekin Road all I could see were the farmers
plowing their fields. But I did notice some birds hovering over the fields. Charlotte handed me her binoculars and told me how to adjust and use them and said, "Look at those birds." I couldn't believe what I saw! A breathtaking sight. These birds were the most gorgeous blue color I'd ever seen! Charlotte said, "Those are bluebirds that are her in Blythe for the winter. They hover over the plowed fields looking for food." Well that did it. I bought me a pair of binoculars and a new adventure was mine. Oh, how I enjoyed Bird Watch8ing. Every spare moment I spent going out to the fields, Cibola, the river, to bird watch. I made new friends who were bird watchers. Ione Arnold, Mrs. Mason, Charlotte, and others. We'd go to Cibola early Saturday mornings to watch the geese migrate in January. Then we'd eat breakfast at our little cabin on the river on our ranch. Glorious days.

House addition in 1974

One hot summer in 1974 my brother, Clinton called me from Phoenix and said, "Sis, do you still want to put an addition on your house? If so, my construction work has slowed down here in Phoenix. I can do it for you this month." We said, "Yes!" I helped Clinton. I never worked so hard. I plastered the ceiling. It didn't look so good, but I did it. Bart, Clinton's son, helped us also. Oh how I enjoyed that new living room with a fireplace and it was big and spacious! I had lived in a small house raising the kids. It felt so good to have room to move in. Larry was home from college and he was a big help too

Ira and Corrine Reid - Milpitas Ranch

Howard and I would go down to see Ira and Corrine Reid at the Milpitas Ranch. It was just across the (Colorado) river from our ranch. Howard would cross over on the boat we had or swim his horse across. To go in the car, we had to go way around to Palo Verde, 20 miles south of Blythe and then another 9 miles to get to their ranch. Ira and Howard were good friends, enjoyed one another very much. They talked, thought, and acted alike. They were outdoor people and loved nature. Corrine knew every desert animal, bird, and flower. She taught me much. She would take in the stray animals, birds that were hurt. I remember a little owl she had found. Its wings were hurt and she kept it in their old ranch house. This little owl would perch on their water heater to keep warm. She taught me about the various kinds of owls in the desert. They left the Blythe Country and moved to Gilroy, California.

Arnett Reunion in Duncan, Arizona - 1985.

On Labor Day, September 2, 1985, Jeff, Pam, Howard and I left St. David for the Arnett reunion in Duncan, Arizona. Howard and I had attended the St. David High School reunion on Saturday, August 31, 1985. We went to Fast and Testimony meeting in St. David, then got up early Monday morning and drove to Safford and then on up to Duncan. The reunion was held in the beautiful Stake House in Duncan just across the Gila River. Lark and Almeda Wilkins catered the lovely dinner for us. Dutch oven chicken, biscuits, potatoes and the trimmings. Alemda was the one that influenced me to read the Book of Mormon through for the first time. She is one of the most influential Book of Mormon teachers I know. I will always be grateful to her for her strong testimony.

We toured the valley, Duncan, Franklin and Virden, New Mexico after the reunion. We took pictures of the Franklin chapel. Howard was in the Bishopric when it was being built. Oh, the memories flooded our minds. We went to the Franklin Cemetery to visit the graves of Mom and Dad Arnett and other relatives. We drove up to Mom and Dad's old home across the Arizona and New Mexico line took a picture of their home. We showed Jeff and Pam where we lived in Duncan and Franklin. All of our sons were born in this valley. We lived here nine years.